The Right One Won’t Be Bothered By Your
Flaws, Weirdness And Your Overthinking Mind
The one that is destined to spend their life next to you
won’t mind your flaws.
Your soulmate, your kindred spirit, your twin
flame, your lover, your one true love, whatever you want to call it,
they won’t be bothered by your imperfections
This person will accept you for who you are.
They will fall in love with your wild, untamed side. They will find
your silly little quirks cute. Your different opinions and ideas will
not be something they’d wish to change. In fact, your
differences will inspire them to question and change certain things
in life.
The right one will not be bothered by your loud
and overthinking mind. They will hush down your loudest insecurities
and calm down your paranoias. They will not judge you. On the
contrary, they will understand the reason why you always overanalyze
everything. They will know that you do that because you deeply care
for them.
The right person will not go running for the
hills when you two have a small fight. They will not be afraid to
confront you and openly talk to you about any kind of issues you two
might have. They won’t mind your mini breakdowns. They are not
going to leave you all alone when you feel the weakest. They will
stand by you, hold your hand and let you know that the best is yet to
come.
The right person isn’t going to judge you
for being weird. They will enjoy your peculiar traits. In fact, your
craziness will complement their craziness. They are going to make you
laugh until you cry. They are going to make sure you feel comfortable
to be yourself in front of them, without masks and without
embarrassment.
The right person isn’t going to be afraid
of the intensity of your love. They won’t feel overwhelmed by
your affection. In fact, they will enjoy your small acts of love.
They will love the way you spoil them, treat them and make them feel
like the happiest person alive. They will never need a break from you
or your love. Because this person will be thrilled to spend their
life by your side.
Most importantly, the right person for you will
never hurt you, leave you, lie to you or abandon you. They are going
to take care of your heart and soul the way they take care of their
own.
Source: curiousmindmagazine.com/the-right-one-wont-be-bothered-by-your-flaws-weirdness-and-your-overthinking-mind/?fbclid=IwAR0L8yeiNbvmumr_K3bzsU1fxxyD14sxCRRgqs0qsDTn1QtGpjscWyiYCAA
I saw a play off Broadway many years
ago called "I love you. You're perfect. Now change." That's been my
experience, for the most part, in my romantic life except for one. I
recently asked her if she had any pet peeves about me or ever have
had. She thought and replied no. I told her that I had been thinking
about us and, in all of these many years, I don't have a recollection
of ever having one with her. My sense in my other relationships is
that we were following the original meme. I had to get better because
someone else wanted me to to be in relationship with them. So they
would point out one of their pet peeves with me. It would bring pet
peeves up and I would point out one of theirs and back and forth, our
pattern going unnoticed, and finally one of us would call it quits.
Thank-you so much for sharing this story. It gives me a foundation in
my continuing evolution around relationship. Be me - always. - Gordon
Clay
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